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"When Trying to Pick up Women, Always Work Alone"
-- by Mike Pilinski --
(c) 2003 Kipling Kat Publishing Co. -- All Rights Reserved
http://www.highstatusmale.com
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Maybe there's something to be said for going out with your
buddies to work the bars and pick up women, but notice how
rarely it ever actually seems to succeed? Girls go to the
clubs in groups for safety and to make it difficult for
all but the most aggressive males to pluck them away from
their circle of friends and make a powerful first
impression. But it puzzles me as to why GUYS
feel they need to run in packs the same way.
Do you draw confidence from your male comrades in a club
situation? Does the competitive spirit make you better? Or
are you even MORE afraid to take a chance with a critical
audience of snickering baboons watching your every move
(AND screw up)? You probably don't know what the hell
you're doing when it comes to approaching women TO BEGIN
WITH... will somehow demonstrating this humiliating
deficiency of your male skills in front of your goofball
buddies make it any better?
Understand this: most of your genuine chances to pick up
women won't ever happen when you're out with the boys in a
bar -- there are far too many distractions and way too
much competition for her attention. This is a situation
where no one but the most VISUALLY OBVIOUS DOMINANT MALE
among the crowd has any advantage. Most women in this
'party mode' are only there to drink and dance and act
nutty anyway. Only the most top dog male in the joint has
any prospect of breaking through this goofy ‘fun trance'
and getting a rise from his suggestive behavior. You?
You're just the sort of invisible shmuck she completely
ignores; nothing but background clutter. The same way
that you ignore all the fat chicks in the crowd and focus
in on only the hottest looking babes. Right?
Your 'modus operandi' has to be completely different.
In order to keep a safety zone around your fragile ego, a
complex NON-verbal interplay must occur before you can
ever speak any words to her with confidence. This takes
time and requires a situation where the two of you can
focus at least some *attention* on one another without
having the trance broken by other people around you
(preferably strangers, and not engaged in doing anything
particularly important i.e., like library readers for
instance). The very same girl that would immediately brush you
off in a bar can be wide open to your advances in AN
ENTIRELY DIFFERENT SITUATION -- one where you can
monopolize her attention. That's why you must always keep
your antennae out and be looking for opportunities in the
most unlikely of situations!
In any case, the absolute WORSE situation for trying to
meet women happens at some wild event where her guard is
up like a silver cross to ward off all the drunken losers
suddenly "full" of liquid courage (low status
males). You'll do *much better* when you learn how to
establish a bit of playful, unspoken communication in
places where her guard is DOWN and you have a chance to
disarm her with your male presence and charm. It's really
not all that difficult once you understand that what she
needs to see from you is just one little sign of Dominant
Male behavior.
The good news... you can easily learn how to *fake* the
most key HSM (High Status Male) attitudes until they
become second nature!
Seductions are a lot like *sporting contests* in that you
never know what unforeseen twists and turns may happen on
your way to victory. You can't allow yourself to be
handcuffed by the need to keep looking over your shoulder
to make sure you're not doing anything that will make you
the butt of jokes and mockery from your "crowd"
for weeks to come. A lot of times, you'll have to scrap
the game plan and make changes to your technique on the
fly -- and these adjustments don't always fit the image of
what your leering buddies probably think is cool.
Look, don't play the loser's game of going out to work the
clubs with your "gang". Not when you're serious
about hunting for women, anyway. Bad experiences will only
sap your confidence and make it more difficult than ever
to effectively play the "real" game... the one
where you try to win the desire of a beautiful woman.
You know... the ONLY game that actually matters.
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