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"Meeting Women Takes Awareness
and Preparation"
-- by Mike Pilinski --
(c) 2003 Kipling Kat Publishing Co. -- All Rights Reserved
http://www.highstatusmale.com
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Want to know a pivotal secret of the mating & dating
game? It's that women plan, practice and prepare for this
contest from a very young age, and (surprise!) are
flat-out *contemptuous* of those men who refuse to play
their expected role.
Sad but true. Women put countless hours into prepping for the
competition between the sexes... hair, makeup, style and
look, clothing, etc. etc. They burn half their
disposable income on just about anything they
can dream up that makes them more attractive to men.
Guys, on the other hand, typically put minimal
effort into making themselves attractive to women... other
than trying to stay within shouting distance of the latest
clothing trend, I suppose. For the most part,
they choose to spend their time involved in sports or hobbies.
That's because most of us figure attractiveness in men
has to do mostly with good looks and money -- beyond
that the workings of the female mind are totally
unfathomable. So why even waste time pondering it?
Except that this lack of knowledge eventually returns to bite us square in the ass!
How? When we attempt to PICK UP WOMEN --*that's* when
our utter cluelessness becomes horribly apparent! Women
have been studying boys since they were teenagers. While
we're out playing video games and practicing our foul
shooting --they're getting together and debating flirting strategies
with their girlfriends, figuring out how to communicate to all the
cute boys using body language, etc. etc. In other words,
they're actually putting some *effort* into the process! They're learning how to
play the game of seduction from their own unique female
perspective, and they are becoming BETTER at it every day.
Not only does our lack of knowledge put us at a distinct
disadvantage, it acts as a complete TURN-OFF to a lot of
women. This is especially true of women who've REALLY
polished their skills to a high level. They hate guys who try to
fake their way through the meeting and seduction process. And
they can smell a phoney from far across a crowded room, trust me.
Can you see now why you might be having so much trouble
determining what women want from guys? You can't be good at
something that you've put so little effort into becoming
practiced at! There's no shame in lacking any of these
skills either. The Art of Seduction does NOT come naturally to anyone -- we
all must strive to observe women and try to really understand
how they're reacting to our presentation of ourselves as men. And
then comes the hard part... we have to LEARN FROM THE
FEEDBACK (mistakes!) and make the appropriate changes in
our behaviors to get the results we're after.
This is where a lot of guys goof up. Learn? Change? Blaaah!
Because we're all fundamentally lazy by nature, we just want to
settle as quickly as possible on some kind of "move" that works
for us (at least once in a while) and then just WORK IT TO DEATH. I guess this beats practicing and
modifying our behaviors based upon what we see, feel and -- well... all that other friggin' WORK!
Well, this approach might pan out okay guys who have great
natural attractors working for them... a handsome face,great
athletic body, the offbeat "artist's" personality or whatever -- but
there's a lot of shy, ordinary men who lack the natural ability to
meet women simply because they failed to develop any 'game'.
For *them*, the best route to success lies in learning how
to take on women in their own home court. And where's that?...
In the deepest recesses of the female subconscious.
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